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The Lie Back blowjob position is probably the most advanced of all the blow job positions in the Bad Girls Bible for giving head. I don’t recommend it for beginners, so if you are looking to brush up on your blow job skills, then make sure to check out the in-depth, illustrated guide on giving a great blow job where you will learn over 50 different blow job tips and techniques to pleasure your man.

How To Perform The Lie Back Blow Job Position

When you perform the Lie Back with your guy it’s quite difficult to control how deep you take him. To help you relax when taking him deep, I highly recommend reading my article on how to deep throat without gagging, specifically this section of the deep throating guide where you’ll learn how to control your gag reflex. To get into the Lie Back position, you need to lie down on your bed on your back. You need to position yourself so that your entire body is on the bed, but your head should be hanging over the side of the bed, so that you can easily tilt it backwards and take your man in your mouth.

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The one great benefit of this position is that your mouth and throat will be in alignment making it slightly easier to deep throat him without gagging when compared to positions like the Thigh Pillow and Doctor blow job positions where your mouth and throat are not in alignment.

Your man should be standing on the floor by your head, but he may have to crouch down a bit depending on how high your bed is. He should start by slowly leaning forward while remaining upright so that you can take his penis into your mouth.

Extra Tips On The Lie Back

Slow At First – It’s crucial that your man takes it slowly at first. Having your head upside down can be very disorientating when you first try it, making it difficult to concentrate on giving him a blowjob.

Stay In Control – Try putting your hands on your man’s legs/waist to help you control how deep and how fast you take him into your mouth. Of course, if you like him being the one in control, then don’t worry about this.

Related: If you want to give your man back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually addicted to you, then you’ll find them in my private and discreet newsletter. You’ll also learn the 5 dangerous & “dumb” sex mistakes that turn him off and how to avoid them. Get it here.

All About Your Nipples – If you enjoy nipple stimulation from your man, then he’s in the perfect position to do it. These nipple stimulation techniques along with these additional tips will help increase your pleasure while giving him oral.

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Lisa has a Masters of Education (M.Ed.) in Human Sexuality from Widener University's Center for Human Sexuality Studies. She is continuing her studies at the University as a doctoral candidate. Lisa is a member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators Counselors and Therapist (ASSECT). She has guest taught human sexuality at several universities including Montclair State, Kean University, and Borough of Manhattan Community College.

Lisa's passion for the field is rooted in her belief that all human beings should understand what healthy sex is, regardless of culture, body or ability.

Her particular areas of expertise focus on: desire in long-term relationship, the intersection of technology and sexuality and its affect on individuals and couples, body image and its influence on sexuality, the impact of the past on single people in America, and modern (online) dating. Her research focuses on marriage from antiquity to present day, modern romance and contemporary dating websites.